So here we are in the New Year, Sweet 16, 2016 that is. I have long said that secrets kill. Kill our creativity, our spirit and the flow of energy to us and from us.
So with that said I have a confession…
I use to lie lie lie lie lie. I didn’t know how to say “NO” to anyone or anything. I needed others approval and permission so badly that I didn’t even consider saying “NO” to anything.
Then as my pile of OBLIGATIONS and TO DO’s got bigger and bigger and bigger, I would start to panic.
I would blame others for not “seeing” how I felt. Couldn’t they “see” I was overworked and overwhelmed? I would find myself not answering the phone, making excuses LAST MINUTE to not show up somewhere or not do something for someone. I would lie that I was sick or my child was sick. That the car broke blah blah blah. YUP I lied my pants off.
I had decided somewhere it was better for me to lie and make excuses than just say I can’t do it. I don’t have time. Thank you, but NO.
The resulting anxiety and stress – from my hectic life AND the lies I was telling everyone INCLUDING myself – began to take its silent toll on my body and my emotional state.
This whole process was making me SICK. Sick emotionally, physically and in my soul. I was numbing out in any way I could. I ate, I smoked, and I just stayed in denial about everything. Why face ANY of it and upset EVERYONE?
Sound familiar? Well here is the thing. The hamster wheel I was one was killing me and I had NO control of anything in my life let alone my TIME. It was a foreign concept to have control of time. I used to feel that was totally outside of me and I had to REACT to IT, not CHOOSE what I WANTED TO DO WITH IT.
Several years ago I said ENOUGH. NO MORE. I began the process of taking back my time and begin using my NO. What I began to realize is that what I wanted was to say YES TO ME. ME? OMG ME?
Yes, I counted for the first time in my life and I began the journey of learning how to move out of fear, denial, excuses and lies. I learned how to move forward towards freedom, choice and saying YES to myself fist…
Ending the anxiety and overwhelm is not about a new planner, or productivity hacks. It is about journeying to the heart of the matter and redefining your relationship with time.
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Isn’t it ABOUT TIME, that you end the chaos and struggle? Isn’t it about time that you actually create the ease and joy in your life that you deserve. Isn’t it about time that YOU say YES to you?
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