Stop the War Within Your Relationship

Do you ever feel like you just can’t win?

Like you’re in a constant battle with the most important person in your life?

In today’s video, I’m going to share how to stop making assumptions – and stop the war within your relationship in the process.

You know the word “assumption” and what it really means when you “assume” – you make an “ass” out of “u” and “me”.

In so many of the couples I work with, there are billions of assumptions being made every day.

• “If he really loved me, he would know what I wanted.”
• “If she really knew me, she’d understand.”
• And so many more battles of the “if you really…”!

But really, it comes down to a battle of the egos.

And here’s what you do to fix it…

Get over it!

In most relationships, we don’t give our partners a chance to explain or define their statements. We hear it through our eyes and ears and then make up the story to match our perception.

Before you make up a story, ask them.

You lose nothing by saying sorry or asking a question in your relationship.

You’ll actually gain a lot more in return.

So, if you’re ready to create a fearless relationship and stop the war within – start asking questions.

Now I’d love to hear from you in the comments below: How would your relationships changed if you stopped “right” fighting and started listening with your heart and asking questions?